I came to the United States in February of 1994. My husband and I got married six days later, so I could get my green card. Since then my status here has been that of resident alien. I can live and work here. I pay taxes here, but so far I’ve kept my Dutch citizenship, since it’s still in perfectly good shape and I’d hate to just abandon it.
When I emigrated, together with my cat, my husband had bought us a little house in a town in South Texas. We lived there until May 2006.
About six months after I came to South Texas, I got a job in the local public library, as a children’s librarian. In the meantime I was struggling to get my Dutch library degree recognized, to no avail. After a few frustrating months at the public library I got a job as the librarian at the high school of one of the region’s smallest and poorest school districts. My absolutely jaw-dropping experiences there can be found under EDUCATION — HIGH SCHOOL. These posts really should be read in order, starting with the oldest. Some more stuff will follow later, as soon as I’ve found those letters.
After almost losing my mind there, I started on the last year of a Bachelor’s degree at the state university nearby. If you want to know why, and how that went and let your jaw drop some more, go to EDUCATION — UNIVERSITY, and start with the oldest post.
My son was born in 1997, right before the beginning of my last semester as an “undergrad”. In the autumn of 1997 I began pursuing a master’s degree in English, which I finished in 2000, I believe, when my daughter was still a baby. You can read my observations as a graduate student under EDUCATION — UNIVERSITY as well, starting here.
We moved to Austin in the summer of 2006. I had been translating Dutch non-fiction into English on and off since 1986, and in 2001 I got officially approved to translate fiction as well, and here in Austin that’s what I focus on. Click here to go to my translating and proofreading website.
Funny (or not): my degree (Licensed Midwife) was also declared worthless in the US. Even though my credits exceeded by far the requirements in the US and I had documented deliveries of more than 600 babies. I fought for a while and then gave up and made the best of it in a different career.
(B.t.w., at some point we lived in the Austin area and I used to work in Austin, at The ARC of the Capital Area. I always found Austin to be one of the nicer places with a nearly European flair to it…well, with a good dose of goodwill and imagination!)
I agree. Austin is almost European, not in looks, but in political views. It’s a little liberal island in an otherwise pretty conservative Texas. As far as degrees are concerned, if you want to have a laugh, read my experiences getting a different degree!
Oh, dear!
Reading this, I feel tears coming to my eyes. First I think they’re tears of laughter. Since this is MY story as well, just switch the scene to Upstate NY and the library degree to midwifery.
But then I realize: they’re tears of grief and anger. How unjust this whole scharade.
Thanks for putting your struggle into words in such a competent way.
Thanks, Helga. Yeah, especially considering the fact that America always ranks at the bottom of the industrialized countries where education is concerned, you’d think they’d welcome people with European degrees with open arms. The thing is, by doing that they would be admitting that they waste students’ money here by not giving them a good high school education and then making them pay through the nose for a useless bachelor’s degree that tries–and doesn’t succeed, see my other posts about being a student here–to make up for the lack of earlier education before they can go on and get a profession.
Well I do not have the experience of living in the US (I lived in the south of America) , but I have the experience of working with US colleauges since our management is based in the US. And funny our lives went different ways but I am working for a publishing company
Nice to read how your life went after (or way after) our friendship in Eemnes
mvg Marit
Hee Marit!!!!! Hoe is het met je?
Goed heel goed
) Na outsourcing van mijn werk ben ik voor Wolterskluwer gaan werken alwaar ik nu de SAP Service Delivery manager ben en het enorm naar mijn zin heb. Ben alweer 12 jaar samen met mijn huidige man, woon in Alphen aan den Rijn en ons huishouden bestaat ook nog uit 2 honden en 2 katten.
Na mijn school werd ik uitgeloot voor de school van journalistiek en na allerlei andere opties ben ik leraren opleiding gaan doen, echter de vakken die ik moest geven ,was op scholen waar de leerlingen alleen hun tijd uitzaten, deprimerend en demotiverend. Dus maar gestopt moeder geworden en 5 jaar later begonnen met werken, de computers kwamen toen net in het bedrijfsleven en aangezien ik nogal kundig wat in systeem beheer en applicatie beheer, werd ik in verschillende bedrijven ingezet voor implementaties. Zo ook bij mijn voorlaatste werkgever Fujitsu-Siemens waar ik onderdeel was van de SAP implementatie. Daarna ben ik 2 1/2 jaar in Duitsland gaan werken voor ze,alwaar ik de leiding had over de SAP first line helpdesk. Ondertussen was ik gescheiden en een nieuw leven begonnen , ja op mijn 40ste(leven begint pas na je 40ste
Dit was de verkorte(toch lange) versie van mijn leven de laatste 35 jaar
Wow, we doen de rest wel via email en facebook. Zo fijn om van je te horen!
I love the line about your Dutch citizenship. I feel the same about my UK, but I think we’re European these days. I’m not so sure I feel the same way about being European!
Yeah, me neither. I left before the whole European Union became real. I’m pre-euro. So do you live in the USA now?
Normally, I try spend half the year in US and half in NZ. Photo work took me to England in Jan.
Oh, how wonderful. New Zealand has to be the photographer’s mecca! It’s on my bucket list.